"You Need Help"
Posted on September 9, 2022
"You Need Help."
Everyone knows that if someone has addictive problems, they need help, right? “Treatment works.”
There is an alternative perspective. If there is an individual with problems (IWP), concerned significant others (CSO’s) may start a conversation. Perhaps there is smoldering resentment and withdrawal by the CSO, and the IWP starts the conversation.
If as CSO you initiate such a conversation, I suggest that the best message is a combination of concern about the problems that the IWP has experienced, hope that the IWP will focus on solving these problems, and a description of any changes the CSO will make. Such changes might be, for instance, “if you are intoxicated… I will depart for the evening; I will ask you to sleep in the other room; I will take the kids and g...
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