Avoidance is Addiction’s Best Friend
Posted on June 29, 2018
by Thaddeus Camlin, Psy.D.
Avoidance and Fear
Nothing feeds fear like avoidance. Substance use itself often becomes problematic because it is such an effective method of short-term avoidance. Eventually, the repetition compulsion of avoidance builds up so much unaddressed residual byproduct that the costs of continued avoidance outweigh the potential costs of facing what we fear. The fulcrum of change and fear is the birthplace of courage. Ultimately, whether it relates to addiction, career, love, health, anything that matters, fear keeps us stuck and change comes from honest confrontation with ourselves.
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