Listening at Thanksgiving (or any time)
Posted on November 16, 2023
By Tom Horvath, PhD
The Thanksgiving dinner table will provide many opportunities for conversation, and perhaps nearly as many opportunities for disagreements and fights. That level of tension can easily motivate us to overuse substances! Let’s look at some ways to prevent the tension from getting that high.
Tips for Listening at Thanksgiving
Is it essential that you provide your opinion? If you are talking with someone whose opinion (based on your experience with them) is unlikely to be open to examination, stating your different opinion will likely not lead to a meaningful conversation, and could lead to a fight. Instead, you could say “You have very strong feelings on this subject.”
If someone holds forth at length (and perhaps in a way you have already listened to before...
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